1. Start with the right greeting
Every French introduction begins with a greeting, and getting this right sets the tone immediately. The good news is that French greetings are simple — but they do depend on context.
| French | Pronunciation | English | When to use |
|---|---|---|---|
| Bonjour | bon-ZHOOR | Hello / Good morning | Any time, any context — always safe |
| Bonsoir | bon-SWAHR | Good evening | After around 6pm |
| Salut | sah-LUE | Hi / Hey | Friends and people your own age — never formal |
| Enchanté(e) | on-shon-TAY | Pleased to meet you | Said immediately after exchanging names |
Always say bonjour first. Walking into a shop, entering a doctor's waiting room, or meeting a colleague — French people greet every person in the room individually. Skipping it is considered rude in a way that surprises many English speakers. When in doubt, lead with bonjour.
2. Saying your name
There are two natural ways to give your name in French. Both are completely correct — the choice comes down to register and flow.
| French | Pronunciation | English |
|---|---|---|
| Je m'appelle [name]. | zhuh mah-PEL | My name is [name]. / I call myself [name]. |
| Je suis [name]. | zhuh SWEE | I am [name]. |
| Et vous ? / Et toi ? | ay VOO / ay TWAH | And you? (formal / informal) |
Je m'appelle is the most common and feels the most natural in conversation. Je suis is a little more direct and is perfectly fine in both formal and casual settings. After giving your name, turn the exchange around immediately with Et vous ? (formal) or Et toi ? (informal) — French people appreciate the reciprocity.
3. Where you're from
After names, the next natural question is almost always about origin — especially once your accent signals that French is not your first language. Here are the phrases you need:
| French | Pronunciation | English |
|---|---|---|
| D'où venez-vous ? | doo vuh-NAY voo | Where do you come from? (formal) |
| Tu viens d'où ? | tü vyaN DOO | Where are you from? (informal) |
| Je viens de [pays/ville]. | zhuh vyaN duh | I come from [country/city]. |
| Je suis [nationalité]. | zhuh SWEE | I am [nationality]. |
| J'habite à [ville]. | zhah-BEET ah | I live in [city]. |
Nationalities in French are not capitalised and change depending on your gender. A man from New Zealand says Je suis néo-zélandais; a woman says Je suis néo-zélandaise. The difference is usually a softened final consonant — something Clara will help you hear and produce naturally over time.
4. Asking and answering "how are you?"
Ça va ? is one of the most-used phrases in the French language, and understanding its register is important. It is informal — you wouldn't use it to open a meeting with your boss. But between equals, it flows into almost every greeting.
| French | Pronunciation | English |
|---|---|---|
| Comment allez-vous ? | koh-MON tah-lay VOO | How are you? (formal) |
| Ça va ? | sah VAH | How's it going? (informal) |
| Ça va bien, merci. | sah vah byaN, mehr-SEE | I'm well, thank you. |
| Très bien, et vous ? | treh byaN, ay VOO | Very well, and you? |
| Pas mal. | pah MAL | Not bad. |
| Comme ci, comme ça. | kom SEE, kom SAH | So-so. |
5. A complete introduction, start to finish
Here is everything above woven into a natural first conversation. Read it through, then try saying your side aloud — replacing the example details with your own.
Sample introduction — formal register
Notice how the conversation flows naturally from greeting to names to origin to profession — that sequence is instinctive to French speakers. Follow that order and you'll immediately feel more natural, even at beginner level.
6. Common mistakes to avoid
Forgetting to say bonjour first
In France especially, launching straight into a question or request without a greeting first is considered abrupt. Even "Bonjour, parlez-vous anglais ?" is vastly better received than "Do you speak English?" alone.
Confusing tu and vous
French has two words for "you": tu (informal, one person) and vous (formal, or more than one person). As a learner, defaulting to vous is always the safer choice with strangers and anyone older than you. You can switch to tu once the other person invites it — a French speaker will often say On peut se tutoyer ? ("Can we use tu with each other?") when they're ready.
7. The fastest way to make this stick
As with all language learning, practice makes perfect. Words and phrases need to be spoken out loud in changing scenarios, which practice your ability to identify the right thing to say, and how to say it.
Clara's conversational French tutoring follows this approach. She will teach you words and phrases through conversation, ensuring you are completely comfortable conversing at your current level before advancing to new material. The talking is the teaching.
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